You are unique and wonderfully made by God. Unless you embrace your freedom to explore who you are, your freedom to believe what you believe and take advantage of the options you have, you are not embracing everything available to you in the 21st century. I believe God plays a role in our freedom to be who we were created to be and without His involvement in our lives we can’t fully realize who we are.
Is something inside you - maybe something someone said to you at some point in your life that stuck with you - keeping you from being who God created you to be? If so - you are not free. You are bound by words of someone else's opinion.
It's time to be free of those things that are holding you back. God wants you to be happy, successful, free of those things that bind you. Take His hand and walk with Him becoming the person He created you to be, strong, whole, complete and filled with joy.